Unhooking Emotional Hooks

 

Dear Friend and Colleague,

Feeling stuck and unable to move forward, you contacted me wondering what to do so you could get on with your life.

As promised, here is a simple and effective exercise I learned from a healer and friend several decades ago. You may record it to monitor yourself through it, and remember my choice of words is directly related to the ease of pronunciation….

First, sit in a chair with a straight back. Continue reading

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House for sale


I know of a Real Estate Agent who is presently dealing with 4 members of the same family. As I am observing the situation, it reminded me of a time when some years ago I was Real Estate Agent in the fair city of North Bay, in Northern Ontario, here in Canada.

Dealing with Italians has left me with some of my fondest memories of my years as a Real Estate Agent.

A young couple was engaged to be married. They were both born in Canada from Italian parents who had emigrated to Canada, and as dowry, the mother of the bride Continue reading

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Maurice, my Mother and the Gandu (Crocodile)

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After having published Bonanna nayo Mundele, I received the following e-mail from Patrick who I pushed in a stroller a little over 50 years ago while living in Léopoldville (Léo for short) now Kinshasa, in what used to be Belgian Congo

“I’ll admit I have to rely on my elders for anything related to lingala. My memories are limited to what would have attracted a 2-3 yr old boy in Léo – Rick bringing a croc in the back of his pick-up, the toys I got for  Saint Nicolas, etc.”

Crocodiles!

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Bonanna nayo Mundele

 

 

Bonanna nayo Mundele in Lingala                    can be translated to

“ I Wish You a Good Year White”

(man or woman).

 

 

Life was usually safe in what used to be Belgian Congo, now République Démocratique du Congo. The garden gates were kept open unless the dogs were free to run in the yard. We did not watch who was coming into our yard, since it was common for Joseph, our servant, to have somebody to drop in for a short visit while passing by… and have a tea when we were not home. Continue reading

Maurice and I

 

Maurice and I

December 22, 2011

Late that afternoon the grocery store where we were shopping for many years was still very busy as I was putting all our purchases on the counter belt. As the familiar lady at the check out counter was scanning or weighting our groceries, I mentioned to her she looked particular happy to work at the store.

Ah, was her reply, she just had two days off. It had been very busy at home. Lots of noise and discussions... Continue reading

Our first Nativity

It is Christmas, and time to put up the Nativity. I have it for a very long time now. It came with us all the way from what used to be Belgian Congo.

I was in grade two when one day in December, Mom and Dad drove us to the vast and manicured compound of the Lycée du Sacré Cœur de Kalina, the school I was attending and dropped my little sister and me in front of a driveway on the side of the buildings holding the classrooms. Wearing the same little dresses, holding my little sister’s hand and the money in the other hand, we walked to the school office as proud as proud could be and came back with this Nativity in a nice little cardboard suitcase. The tallest figurines were 7 cm high (or 2″ 3/4). Being the oldest of four girls and the first to get married, I succeeded at inheriting that little Nativity.  It came with us from Congo, following us in Canada from coast to coast to coast. Continue reading